{"id":253,"date":"2008-12-16T13:26:14","date_gmt":"2008-12-16T13:26:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chriscurnow.com\/index.php\/2008\/12\/16\/is_that_all_the\/"},"modified":"2008-12-16T13:26:14","modified_gmt":"2008-12-16T13:26:14","slug":"is_that_all_the","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chriscurnow.com\/?p=253","title":{"rendered":"Is that all there is?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Most Christmas messages are light hearted homilies full of good cheer, hope for humanity, celebration and high spirits. We all need a break from the pressures of everyday life and Christmas is one of those times many of us use to relax. Personally I love Christmas. I love the atmosphere. I love getting together with my family. The big Christmas dinner. Using the opportunity to bring joy into many hearts. All that and much more.<\/p>\n<p>\nHowever, as I sit down to write my final newsletter for the year, my thoughts are a little more reflective than usual. Still full of hope as is who I am. But the path to hope is more complex than I usually allow myself at this time of year.<\/p>\n<p>\nI had a deep conversation with the manager of my regular cafe last week. We talked<br \/>\nabout life and experience and the varied paths we all take in our days on this<br \/>\nplanet. Discussing the absolute dedication many people in the corporate world<br \/>\ngive to their careers my colleague remarked &#8220;I wonder if they&#8217;ve ever stopped<br \/>\nto think &#8216;What&#8217;s next?'&#8221; By this she meant if they have ever wondered what<br \/>\nthe end game of their career progression be. If you get to the top (whatever &#8216;the<br \/>\ntop&#8217; may be) what&#8217;s next? If you don&#8217;t get to the top at the end of your career,<br \/>\nwhat&#8217;s next? I see so many people who work 80 hours a week and wonder when<br \/>\nthey ever get time to enjoy the benefits of their work. Before I continue on this thought, I want to relate a seperate experience. <\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>\nMy second daughter (Judy<br \/>\nand I have four daughters) completed high school seven years ago. Sometime<br \/>\nduring high school she decided she wanted to be a doctor and she applied for<br \/>\nadmission to many medical schools. Unfortunately, although she achieved excellent<br \/>\nresults she didn&#8217;t get into any of them and instead started a Science degree.<br \/>\nShe still wanted to be a doctor and investigated the various pathways open<br \/>\nto her. At the end of first year Sarah applied again for entrance to a number<br \/>\nof med schools and was offered a place interstate at the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unsw.edu.au\/\">University<br \/>\nof New South Wales<\/a>. She had only a few days decide whether to turn all<br \/>\nher plans for the following year on their head. To leave her group of friends<br \/>\nand family and move to another state where she didn&#8217;t know anyone. Sarah did<br \/>\ntake up the opportunity, which meant a lot of hardship for her. On top of the<br \/>\nhuge workload of a medical degree, she had to work to meet the higher costs<br \/>\nof living away from home in another state.<\/p>\n<p>\nLast week, seven years after leaving high school, Sarah graduated as a doctor (with honours). Judy and I and her three sisters all travelled up for the graduation which was a great occasion which we enjoyed immensely.<\/p>\n<p>\nThe Occasional Address was delivered by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ccia.org.au\/?pagecall=content&amp;ContentID=30058\">Professor<br \/>\nMichelle Haber<\/a> &#8211; and this is where I return to my theme. Professor Haber graduated a couple of years after me in the late 70s. After taking some initial changes in direction, she took up what was to be a lifelong calling &#8211; research into the causes and treatment of childhood cancer. She is currently director of the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ccia.org.au\/index.cfm\">Childhood<br \/>\nCancer Institute Australia<\/a>, a position she has held since 2000. Quoting from her bio &#8220;&#8230; she is known nationally and internationally for her research on delineating mechanisms of resistance to antic-cancer drugs in the treatment of nueroblastoma. Professor Haber has also been a key contributor in developing new approaches to improving the outcomes of children diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\nAs she was being introduced, we were told she was the key driver in the building works next to the auditorium in which we were sitting. As it turned out, the building we saw emerging from the ground was to be the home of the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unsw.edu.au\/news\/pad\/articles\/2007\/jun\/Lowy_Cancer_Centre.html\">Lowy<br \/>\nCancer Research Centre<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\nIt struck me as I was listening to Professor Haber being introduced how much a contribution to the community one person can make. It made consider how puny many of our aspirations are &#8211; especially our aspirations in business. How does a career in business compare with a career such as that of Michelle Haber? When we are in business, we think we are doing terribly important things. But are we really? Certainly we may be in a position where a lot of people depend on us. We may be in a position in which decisions we make affect the livelihood of a lot of people. Most people I speak with in business are aware of their responsibilities to those who depend on them but a lot of the time the focus appears to be solely on making money.  How does any of this compare with the work of someone like Michelle Haber?<\/p>\n<p>\nAll this reminded me of the late 60s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.peggylee.com\/\">Peggy<br \/>\nLee<\/a> song <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lyricsdownload.com\/peggy-lee-is-that-all-there-is-lyrics.html\">&#8220;Is<br \/>\nthat all there is?&#8221;<\/a>. The song (written by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.geocities.com\/spectropop\/hleiberstoller.html\">Jerry<br \/>\nLeiber and Mike Stoller<\/a>) has a rich history. If you remember the song, you<br \/>\nwill remember the verse, in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nodanw.com\/shows_c\/cabaret_essay.htm\">German<br \/>\ncabaret style<\/a>, is spoken rather than sung. This places its connection firmly<br \/>\nwith the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.autodidactproject.org\/other\/lukacsx1.html\">German<br \/>\nExistentialists<\/a>. It seems the song was based<br \/>\non the story &#8216;Disillusionment&#8217; by <a href=\"http:\/\/nobelprize.org\/nobel_prizes\/literature\/laureates\/1929\/mann-autobio.html\">Thomas<br \/>\nMann<\/a>. Here is a summary of the story taken from Colin Wilson&#8217;s book <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1853980064?ie=UTF8&#038;tag=chriscurnowco-20&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=390957&#038;creativeASIN=1853980064\"><em>The<br \/>\nCraft of the Novel<\/em><\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.assoc-amazon.com\/e\/ir?t=chriscurnowco-20&#038;l=as2&#038;o=1&#038;a=1853980064\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" style=\"border:none !important; margin:0px !important;\" \/><br \/>\n:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\nThe narrator is sitting in St Mark&#8217;s Square in Venice when he falls into<br \/>\na conversation with a fellow countryman. The man asks, &#8220;Do you know what<br \/>\ndisillusionment is? Not a miscarriage in small unimportant matters, but the great<br \/>\nand general disappointment which everything, all of life, has in store?&#8221; He tells<br \/>\nhow, as a small boy, the house caught fire; yet as they watched it burn down<br \/>\nhe was thinking, &#8220;So<br \/>\nthis is a house on fire? Is that all?&#8221; And ever since then, life has<br \/>\nbeen a series of disappointments; all the great experiences have left him with<br \/>\nthe feeling: &#8220;Is that all?&#8221; Only when he saw the sea for the first<br \/>\ntime, he says, did he feel a sudden tremendous craving for freedom, for a sea<br \/>\nwithout a horizon&#8230; And one day, death will come, and he expects it to be<br \/>\nthe last great disappointment. &#8220;Is<br \/>\nthis all?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\n(My thanks to <a href=\"http:\/\/www2.hawaii.edu\/~lady\/snapshots\/peggy-lee.html\">Lee<br \/>\nLady<\/a> for this background.)<\/p>\n<p>\nMy point in all this is to ask &#8220;What is it for?&#8221; &#8220;What&#8217;s the<br \/>\npurpose?&#8221; When<br \/>\nwe&#8217;ve climbed the corporate ladder and got to the top (or we&#8217;ve got<br \/>\nto wherever we&#8217;ve got to) and we look back on our careers, will we be able<br \/>\nto say we are happy with how we&#8217;ve spent our lives? Will we be able to<br \/>\nsay it was all worth it? So many of the people I speak with and read about in<br \/>\nhigh flying corporate careers seem to have very little time to enjoy the spoils<br \/>\nof their achievements. They&#8217;re mostly working 80 hour weeks. Why do they do it?<br \/>\nWhy do you do what you do?<\/p>\n<p>\nI do believe we are all motivated by an &#8220;enduring purpose&#8221; and, to<br \/>\nsome extent, that purpose is shared. I don&#8217;t pretend to understand how<br \/>\nwe develop a sense of purpose or how there are elements of that purpose we share<br \/>\nas a community. I don&#8217;t even know how to put that purpose into words. But I believe<br \/>\nit is there. I believe also that when we connect with that purpose, whatever<br \/>\nconnecting with a purpose might mean for each of us, we tap into a source of<br \/>\ncreative energy and knowledge that enables us to achieve great things within<br \/>\nour own sphere of influence.<\/p>\n<p>\nMy message of hope then for this festive season, and it is my hope, that when<br \/>\nwe live our lives in service of the purpose that motivates us, we will know<br \/>\nthat even if &#8220;that&#8217;s all there is&#8221; we will also know a sense of<br \/>\nenormous satisfaction and we will know that somehow we have contributed to<br \/>\nthe greater good.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most Christmas messages are light hearted homilies full of good cheer, hope for humanity, celebration and high spirits. We all need a break from the pressures of everyday life and Christmas is one of those times many of us use to relax. Personally I love Christmas. I love the atmosphere. 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